Today, as more and more couples take a non-traditional approach on their wedding, their wedding cake is also following suite. Many couples have dropped the whole “white tiered wedding cake with flowers” and opt for something a little more, well, fitting to their taste. There are cakes ranging from a donut tower, to a macaroon tower, to a crepe cakes! Seriously, the choices are endless!
So if you’re looking to add something unique and personalized into your wedding, try playing around with your wedding cake! I’m sure the guests would still absolutely love it if you had a crepe cake 🙂
Sure, many couples have little “themed” and “color themed” wedding. Like they would have purple and white as their main colors and everything in their wedding and reception are decorated with that color scheme. However, have you ever thought about taking it up a noch? Young couples getting married today are taking a traditional wedding into a whole different twist. Some go all out and have Star War themed weddings where the bride dresses up as Princess Leia, the groom as Han Solo, and the officiator is dressed as Darth Vader. Too much?
But this is becoming more and more “normal.” Young couples today are getting tired of the usual wedding traditions and are adding their own twists and personal aspects into their wedding to make it, well, more intimate and more them! Traditions are meant to be passed down from generation to generation, yes, but they’re also meant to be modified, changed, to fit the current society and culture! As the centuries go by, the human kind changes, their values and morals changes, it’s NATURAL. Hence, why stick with the original tradition if you are changing and that the traditions in the past don’t fit you anymore? Think about it, if humans didn’t change and evolve to grow and adapt, then would we be here with our advance technology and science today?
So if you’re having doubts about having the kind of wedding that you want because you’re afraid of what your mom, grandma, friends might say, don’t worry about it! It’s your wedding and if you want a Harry Potter themed wedding then go for it! Remember, humans grow and develop rapidly, their morals change from generation to generations. That’s normal. If anyone is telling you otherwise, well, don’t listen to them and just don’t invite them to you wedding 😛
So here’s some very, very, VERY important piece of news… Zach Galifianakis is engaged! He reportedly proposed to his long time girlfriend Quinn Lundberg. This calls for an “awwwww” moment doesn’t it? There’s currently no word on exactly how Galifianakis proposed but I’m sure those details will come soon enough:) What we do know is that the wedding is set for August 11, 2012 and the invite included a picture of Galifianakis as a terrible little troll and his fiance as a beautiful blond princess. Creative right? Now, we’re all just wondering if the wedding is going to be as crazy and funny as Galifianakis’s career 😛
Congrats to the happy couple!
To counter all the negativity about guys in the post yesterday, here’s a list of traits that you should look at to find your REAL perfect prince charming 🙂 Don’t worry, despite everything, nice, caring guys actually DO exist ^_^
You want a guy who…
Says, “You’re beautiful.”
Is never too busy to drive across town to see you.
Gives you flowers and a card when you’re sick.
Gives you flowers just because.
Says he’ll would die for you…
And really would.
Says, “Sex CAN wait.”
Did what you wanted to do.
Cried in front of you.
You cried in front of.
Holds hands with you.
Kisses you with meaning.
Hugs you when you’re sad.
Hugs you for no reason at all.
Kisses you on the forehead.
Would give his jacket up for you.
Opens the door for you.
Calls to make sure you got home safe.
Would sit and wait for you for hours…
just to see you for ten minutes
Would give his seat up.
Just want to cuddle.
Reassured you that you’re beautiful no matter what.
Told his secrets to you.
Tried to show how much he cared through every word and every breath.
Thought maybe you could be the one.
Believed in you dreams…
Would have done anything so you could achieve them.
Never laughed at you when you told him your dreams.
Walked you to your car.
Opens your car door for you.
Gave his heart to you.
Prays that you’re happy even if he’s are not with you.
Plays with you hair until you fell asleep.
You want a nice guy ^_^ ❤
You’re about to marry your prince charming, ready to spend the rest of your life with this one person. Wait, hold up, WHAT? Seriously? Are you sure about this? I mean, guys in general have a very homogenous nature programmed into them. So what makes you think he’s so different from all those other guys? Most guys have a super sweet way with words, saying everything that you want to hear, making you feel so special. That’s all bullshit. Guys are all inconsiderate, insensitive, jerks. If you meet one who’s not like that, then most likely he’s just lying through his teeth. If a guy tells you how much he loves you but always ignores you whenever his friends and business partners are around, HE’S LYING. If a guy holds you warm in his arms and tells you he would do anything to protect you, but he doesn’t do anything when he saw your computer get smashed by your next door neighbor or doesn’t act when you get sexually harassed at work because he thinks will damage his own company’s reputation, HE’S LYING. He’ll always have some excuse (or in his words, “justifications”) for why he never acted, but don’t believe him. He’s just going to keep doing this, having a very good excuse every single time he needed him but he wasn’t there.
He’s going to tell you that you’re special, that you’re the one for him, and everything else to make your heart melt. He says all this just to use you, to make you give up your own career, your own ambitions just so you can focus on taking care of him and helping his and company grow. While he’s on this numerous business trips, he’s out partying, drinking, fooling around, and who knows doing what else with other girls. You’ve caught him cheating once or twice but he’s always so apologetic and seems sincerely guilty. You sort of forgive him but you never forget about the hurt nor can you fully trust him again.
While he’s so sweet telling you everything that you want to hear, he also hurts you often. Sometimes without realizing it, other times were purposefully verbal and physical abuse. If you almost died from him losing his temper and then holding you on the floor with his hands firmly pressed against your neck, choking you, HE’S A FAKE. If his hand suddenly flies out in the car and lands on your arm with an ear-shattering loud “SMACK” just because you got confused looking at the map and gave him the wrong directions, HE’S A FAKE. If the two of you then make up less than a day later after each accident and he’s extra nice to you in the days following, DON’T BELIEVE HIM. You’re just going to get hurt again, over and over…
Be careful with who you fall in love with. It could turn into your fairytale or it could turn into your personal living hell.