Is it possible to continue to build a relationship when trust is lost?

The obvious answer is No. However, I think it’s a little more complicated than that. What happens when you love someone but they did something to lose your trust and now, years later there’s still a huge issue between you two about trust? Everything that you guys fight about is rooted back to the lack of trust. How do you fix that? Is it possible to ever fix it?

Miranda, from Sex and the City, completely lost her faith in Steve for awhile after she found out that he had cheated on her. However, she ended up forgiving him and was willing to give him another chance. Yes, years later in Sex and the City 2, she seems fine, but it’s just a movie! Can it really happen in real life? Is it really that easy to forgive and forget and move on?

There are so many couples worldwide who get married everyday. There’s bound to be some couples who have ran into this issue. I would love to hear your comments on this because quite frankly, I’m at a loss. How do you deal with someone who has taken your heart and tore it into thousands of little pieces? You sacrificed your own career for his to flourish, your own ambitions so that his could change the world. You sacrificed everything for him. Yet, he goes out and flirts and cheats on you with other women. Even if it did happen years ago and he promises he has changed, how, how, how, how is it possible to give him your heart again?

I know that this post is a little on the morbid side, but I’m putting it out there hoping that some people will respond with a solution. I have a few girlfriends depending on your answers!

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